Published in


14 Successful Ways to Start Working on Self-Improvement

Photo by MARK ADRIANE on Unsplash

Everybody has something they want to improve. Can you improve yourself? Is there any way to improve your daily life?

The human potential is unlimited. Usually, a person is better when they think they can do it better and have confidence in themselves.

As an advocate and passionate believer in personal growth, I continue to search for new opportunities. I’ve collected these practical self improvement tips to help you with your personal growth journey.

Identify your blind spots

Scientifically, a blind spot indicates an area that our eyes cannot see. Blind spots are facets of our identity and we’re usually unaware of them.

The ability to identify our blind spots is helpful when looking to improve our weaknesses and skills.

How do you identify your blind spots?

There are a few ways to identify your blind spots. One way is by asking people who know you well for feedback.

The second way is to keep a journal and document areas you’d like to work on being aware there are areas where you could use improvement, but haven’t acknowledged the need to do so.

Once you’ve identified your blind spots, it’s important to work on those skills so you don’t become stagnant. This can be difficult because we’re not used to change and facing our weaknesses. However, it’s necessary in order to grow as a person.

Personal Development By Increasing Your Focus Skills

Focusing is the ability to concentrate your attention where you really want it, without distractions from uncomfortable emotions, external stimuli, or inappropriate behavior.

This helps improve the quality of life and improves your overall health. Here are some self improvement tips for improving your focus skills.

Start a 30-Day Challenge

A 30 day challenge is a great way to learn more about yourself and build good habits. I’ve found that the best results come from using this technique in three different parts of life: personal, professional, and physical health.

To start, make a list of things you want to change or improve in each of these areas. Then, for the next 30 days, commit to working on one change in each area.

If you don’t feel you can handle that, explore what you most want to improve and spend time on it.

For example, if you want to get in shape, work out for 30 days straight. If you want to improve your eating habits, eat healthy for 30 days.

This challenge is not about perfection, it’s about being able to cultivate progress. The goal is to make slight changes that you can stick with for the long term.

Start Meditating for Personal Growth

How does meditation improve your mood? With self-improvement, meditation is an essential tool.

It can help you set sight of your goals and stay on track. It also helps you deal with stress and anxiety, which can interfere with your ability to improve yourself.

In addition, meditation has many other benefits that can help you achieve your goals.

Some benefits of meditation for personal growth are:

  • Decreased anxiety
  • Improved focus
  • Increased self-awareness
  • Improved sleep quality

If you’re new to meditation, there are many free resources out there available to help you get started.

There are also apps that can guide you through the process. Once you get the hang of it, meditating can be done anywhere, at any time.

Set Smaller Goals

One of the best ways to improve your focus is to set smaller goals.

By breaking down your larger goals into smaller ones, you can stay on track and make progress one step at a time.

This also helps you avoid getting overwhelmed by the magnitude of your goals.

Get out of your comfort zone

Photo by Nigel Tadyanehondo on Unsplash

Invest in yourself. Too much comfort hinders the growth; it stagnates us.

Identify the boundaries between a comfortable area and a new one.

Take hiking trails you haven’t been to, cook something you never tried and then tell someone if they want to invite you.

Be around people that inspire you

When we associate with like-minded individuals, it not only becomes easier to achieve our goals but also fun.

There is a sense of camaraderie and support that comes from being around others who want the same things in life. These types of relationships provide opportunities to learn and grow.

Develop yourself by working on your emotions

If we want to improve ourselves, it should be done on emotions. Emotions are the most powerful tool we have in our arsenal.

After all, it’s our emotions that drive our actions and thoughts. Therefore, it only makes sense to learn how to control them instead of being controlled by them.

Many people try to numb their emotions or push them down because they’re afraid of feeling them. However, this only leads to problems down the road. It’s important to feel our emotions so that we can process them and move on.

One way to do this is to journal. Writing our thoughts and feelings can help us understand them better. It also allows us to get them out of our head and onto paper (or screen). If you’re not sure what to write about, try prompts like these:

  • What are you feeling right now?
  • Why do you think you’re feeling this way?
  • What can you do to make yourself feel better?
  • What is one positive thing that happened today?

Be patient with yourself

Self-improvement is a journey, not a destination. It’s important to be patient with yourself and give yourself grace when you make mistakes. Remember that progress, not perfection, is the goal.

The most important thing is to keep moving forward. As long as you’re attempting to improve, you’re on the right track.

Work on yourself by improving your habits

Photo by Drew Beamer on Unsplash

Habits are one of the most important things to work on in self-improvement. Our habits dictate our lives and how we live them. If we want to make positive changes, we need to work on our habits.

There are many ways to work on our habits. One way is to identify the bad habits we want to change and then make a plan to change them. Another way is to develop good habits that support our goals.

Here are some examples of bad habits that you may want to change:

  • Procrastination
  • Unhealthy eating
  • Sedentary lifestyle
  • Negative self-talk

And here are some examples of good habits that you can develop:

  • Exercise
  • Healthy eating
  • Reading
  • Meditation

Remember, it takes time to develop new habits. Be patient with yourself and don’t get discouraged if you slip up. Just keep working at it and eventually, it will become second nature.

Learn to rest deeply

Nowadays, we have a lot of work, studies, reading books and listening to podcasts. But this doesn’t stop and we create more work for ourselves.

Generally speaking, it seems that some activities are simply “resting,” some are “working.” Work, study or cleaning is a “job”. Travelling, chatting with friends is “rest”.

There is a big difference between resting deeply and taking a break. Resting deeply means that you are completely relaxed and your mind is clear.

You are not thinking about anything else other than the present moment. We can do this through practices like yoga, meditation, or deep breathing.

Taking a break, on the other hand, means that you are taking a break from whatever it is you were doing. This could be watching TV, scrolling through social media, or reading a book.

While taking a break can be helpful in some ways, it’s not the same as resting deeply.

When we rest deeply, our mind and body are able to completely relax. This allows us to rejuvenate and recharge.

It’s like hitting the reset button on our body and mind. If we want to be our best selves, it’s important to learn how to rest deeply.

Practice self-compassion

One of the most important things you can do for yourself is to practice self-compassion. This means being kind and understanding towards yourself, even when you make mistakes.

It’s about recognizing that we are all human and we all make mistakes.

Self-compassion can help us feel better about ourselves, cope with difficult situations, and make positive changes in our lives.

If you’re not sure how to practice self-compassion, here are some tips:

  • Be gentle with yourself. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would treat a good friend.
  • Don’t be too hard on yourself. Accept that you are imperfect and that you will make mistakes.
  • Forgive yourself. Let go of any negativity and self-judgement.
  • Show yourself some compassion. Be understanding and accepting of yourself.

Eat healthier

With so few healthy options available, it is sometimes difficult to eat well. Our diet affects the quality of our lives.

Allow food to be the medicine that heals you from the inside out. Start small and keep consistent when implementing new habits.

Eating healthy is one of the most important things we can do for our minds and bodies.

When we eat unhealthy foods, our minds and bodies become sluggish and weighed down. This makes it difficult to focus on our work, studies, or any other activities.

Stick to an Exercise Routine

Yes, yes, I know. Everyone and their cousin say to stick to an exercise routine. Same with eating healthy.

Another important thing to do for your mental and physical health is just that, though. If you sit a lot and are sedentary, that’s nearly as bad as smoking.

Getting yourself into a new habit of exercising will help you in the long run.

There are so many benefits to exercise, it’s hard to list them all. But here are just a few:

  • Exercise boosts our mood and helps fight depression and anxiety.
  • It helps improve our sleep quality.
  • It gives us more energy.
  • It strengthens our heart and lungs.
  • It helps us stay sharp and mentally alert.

So if you want to be your best self, make sure you stick to an exercise routine. Even just 30 minutes of moderate exercise a day can make a big difference.

What are the main ideas of self-improvement?

Almost all self-improvement requires addressing our own emotional state and prompting us to be in the moment.

The main ideas of self-improvement are to work on our own state of being in order to improve the quality of our life.

This can be done in many ways, but some of the most common are practicing self-compassion, eating healthier, and sticking to an exercise routine as I mentioned above.

What is important to achieve when self-improving yourself?

Successful growth and self-improvement have to come from digging deep and figuring out what we want to change about ourselves.

It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it. Why is it important to grow and develop as a person? Because when we improve our lives, we make the world a better place.

We become better people who can contribute more positively to society. So if you want to make a difference in the world, start with yourself.

We all want to be better people, but it’s hard to know where to start.

It can be tough to get started on self-improvement, especially if you don’t know where to begin. You might feel like you’re not good enough or that you don’t have the time.

I’ve got the perfect solution for you. In my class on self forgiveness, I’ll teach you how to take steps towards forgiving yourself and make progress on your self-improvement journey. Plus, by signing up today you’ll get access for only $1!




We curate and disseminate outstanding articles from diverse domains and disciplines to create fusion and synergy.

Recommended from Medium

“How To Survive And Thrive As A Highly Sensitive Person” with Katie Krimer

Selfless Love is all about Service Before Self

How to Change Your Patterns

Why Taking a Year Out After You Graduate Is a Good Idea

Men, you don’t have to cope alone

14 Undeniable Ways for You to Make the Most Out of Life

But I INTENDED to say…..

You Are MORE Than Your Accomplishments

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store
Karen Parquet

Karen Parquet

Author, writer, and sarcasm expert focused on self-development, self-care, and small business. Follow me for helpful tips and advice on life.

More from Medium

3 Ways To Get Your Cardio In

How to Break the All or Nothing Mentality

Does tea help you lose weight?:

Fasting or…Fasting, That Is The Question