15 Harsh Relationship Lessons That Your Therapist Won’t Say to Your Face

It is time for someone to be honest with you.

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She heard the story.

She said nothing; and proceeded to make notes in her journal.

What did she scribble down? I’ll never know.

But her Tweet insights might give a few clues.

#1. Time doesn’t heal your wounds.

“The older you get, the more you realize it’s not about who knows you the longest, it’s about who makes you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported and loved.”

#2. Arguments don’t give you closure.

“Sometimes the smartest thing you can do is be quiet and keep low-key, even if you have a lot to say. The older you get, the more you care about your peace than winning an argument or proving a point.”

#3. Self-accountability is essential.

“At some point you got to get real with yourself about how much you participate in your own suffering.”

#4. Rejection positivity is a superpower.

“The real flex is seeing rejection as divine redirection and protection. A…