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Self-Discovery
3 Keys to Real Power
The illusion of control
Think you’re in control? Think again. Most of us give our power away unknowingly. Let’s reclaim it.
The ultimate power
While we like to think we are in control of our lives, reality tells a different story. Countless influences, from habits to emotions to unseen societal pressures, largely govern our choices.
Reclaiming your power isn’t just desirable; it’s essential for living a meaningful, intentional life. Every choice you make, big or small, shapes who you are. Understanding how to take control is the first step toward living deliberately rather than drifting.
It’s hard to grasp just how powerless we can be in our own lives. We like to think of ourselves as fully autonomous, yet complete control over every aspect of our being is virtually impossible. If someone ever achieved such mastery, they would be an extraordinary, perhaps singular, example.
Some people even claim they don’t want to be in control. Where does that mindset originate? Often, it traces back to immaturity, a remnant of childhood dependence that relies on parents to help them navigate the world. Some adults, unfortunately, never leave that phase. They avoid responsibility for their behaviors and decisions…
