3 Tips to Help Guys Get Over a Breakup

Because breakups can be just as hard on us as well.

Ryan J
ILLUMINATION

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Hurtling through an intergalactic abyss, surroundings fading to a blur as his mind vacates his body and travels to another dimension.

This is what it felt like for Liam as he sat on the end of the bed in his bedroom, frozen in a trance, staring at the screen of his phone, reading and re-reading those two gut-wrenching words.

It’s over.”

His world had come crashing down around him and he had no idea what he was going to do next.

Mental Chaos in All Its Glory

Breakups can be a living nightmare. Especially if you don’t see them coming.

One day you’re riding high, feeling like a boss. Strutting your stuff, you’ve got that swagger, a winner’s mentality, life is amazing. You’re killing it and the best part of it all, you’ve got the girl of your dreams by your side, she’s got your back and is cheering you on. A modern-day Bonnie and Clyde.

Then, without warning, the ride of a lifetime comes to an abrupt halt, flinging you headfirst into the deepest darkest pits of hell. Alone, with no one to turn to, no one to save you, depression sets in and you’ve no frickin' idea how you’re going to recover.

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Ryan J
ILLUMINATION

From Northern Ireland 🍀 | Based in Sydney 🦘 | Writing about life, mindset and whatever else catches my attention.