5 Tells That Help Recognize a Narcissist on a First Date

Mira Lucas
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5 min readMar 13, 2023

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How to recognize narcissism early on in a relationship: how does a narcissist behave on a first date?

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Narcissists are individuals who have a grandiose sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.

Every type of relationship with a narcissist can be difficult, but being in a romantic relationship with a narcissist can have significant negative impacts on your emotional, psychological, and physical well-being.

According to research, a partner with narcissistic traits is prone to using manipulative tactics and less likely to be committed to a long-term relationship. This can be compounded by their persistent desire for admiration, exaggerated self-image, and vulnerable self-worth.

Being in a romantic relationship with a narcissist

Here are some ways in which being in a romantic relationship with a narcissist can affect you:

  1. Emotional abuse: Narcissists often manipulate and exploit their partners to get what they want. This can involve emotional abuse, such as gaslighting, belittling, or criticizing you, withholding affection or attention, and playing mind games. This can lead to feelings of low self-worth, anxiety, and depression.

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Mira Lucas
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Written by Mira Lucas

Freelance journalist. I like cats, coffee, and equality. Editor at WAVE 4. Join Medium: https://miralucas.medium.com/membership

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