A Spicy Birthday Cake

How to kick things up a notch in your relationship

Yana Bostongirl
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Beautiful woman holding birthday cake
Cake! Image by Freepik

The lap dance

Some hear lap dance and are like, whoa!

I don’t mean a lap dance at a strip club, however, what’s the harm in spicing things up in the bedroom by giving a lap dance to a special someone?

One of the biggest complaints I hear from my friends is that the spark has left the building. They are exhausted from managing work, family, and household chores and are too busy to try something different. Their idea of the perfect night is a good, long, uninterrupted sleep.

Alas, intimacy has become something that can be squeezed into an already crammed schedule.

For me, emotional connection is crucial for maintaining a strong bond in a romantic relationship. Feeling desired and valued as a woman is vital for getting into the mood. Physical touch strengthens both the emotional and intimate bond between us.

I imagine this desire to feel cherished by one’s partner is mutual for him as well.

Therefore, the onus is on us to keep things exciting and demonstrate ongoing interest in each other.

For his eyes only

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Yana Bostongirl
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My life + relationships + writing journey → my blogs (a memoir in motion)| Boosted Writer| 🌸Substack: Yana's World 👇 https://yanabostongirl.substack.com/