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Amazing Relationship Advice — Love Spark

How to Get the Spark of Love Back

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Losing the spark — simply, if you will, falling out of love — is a natural and widespread phenomenon in long-term relationships.

As a matter of fact, most of these relationships experience an ebb and flow that is quite normal and to be expected.

The problem, as I see it, is that most of us buy into the idea that we are supposed to fall in love and live “happily ever after.’’

In reality, there are times when you may not even like the person you are married to.

I believe it was Billy Joel who sang:

“You might love somebody but you won’t want ’em everyday.’’

It’s no coincidence the song is titled “Ain’t No Crime.’’

The normal ebb and flow of relationships seems to involve at least three distinct stages:

• In Love
• Out of Love
• Wanting Out

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In Love