Are Covert Narcissists Surprised When You Don’t Chase Them After a Discard?
Don’t narcissists think they’re a gift to humanity?
The covert narcissist’s mask slipped. You saw who they are.
One of you initiated a discard.
You’re not chasing them this time. This discard is different.
You wonder if they’re surprised.
Don’t narcissists think everyone wants to be with them?
Different types of narcissists are — well, different
Even amongst the various types, you’ll see differences.
That said, most narcissists feel entitled, superior, unique, or special to some degree. In their mind, it is somewhat unfathomable that you would not want them back.
Let’s look at how this plays out.
An overt narcissist discards you…
The overt narcissist has already secured new sources of supply. This was done before your discard.
At this point, they’ve replaced you as their primary source; however, they’re not counting you out. All of your confusion, thinking about them, and discussing them with friends gives them narcissistic supply. If you chase after…
