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Can You Trust Again?
What is trust, and how can you build it?
Can you deal with someone you don’t trust? Would you want to? If so, why? Let’s explore these and other questions while we look at the role of trust in our lives.
The need for trust
In many workplaces, you hear about building trust. It is not unusual for companies to have meetings, outings, or seminars attempting to develop or regain trust in the company or each other. Have you participated in the well-known trust-building exercise– the trust fall? Will things like falling backward into the arms of others, hoping they will catch you, build trust? More on this later.
There is little doubt that establishing trust is vital in business and relationships. Yet, there is a severe lack of trust today. Look at the distrust of the government, politicians, social media, and mainstream news media.
Imagine a world without trust. It’s not a pretty picture. Trust is required for the world to function. Why? Because at the root of trust is truth. Without truth, chaos reigns! Is it any wonder our world is in the mess it is in today? Who can you believe? Who can be trusted?
Facts about trust
According to the Our World in Data website, less than 40% of people in the United States agree with the statement “most people can be trusted.” Think about that for a moment. That means less than 2 out of 5 people believe they can trust another person! Mass paranoia, anyone?
Yet, it is even worse for our trust in the government. According to the Pew Research Center, public trust in the federal government has been at record lows for over a decade. It currently stands at under 20%, meaning only 1 in 5 people trust the federal government!
I admit I have lost trust in far more than 80% of those in politics and government. With rampant corruption throughout and so many people in it only for themselves, they will continue to say one thing and do another. Remember that old saying:
“Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me!”
Too many politicians attempt to fool us to get our votes. Sadly, the same goes for much of…
