Change your reference point to achieve your goals—an easy way to fulfillment.
We don’t procrastinate because we aren’t motivated enough. We procrastinate because we can’t clearly define our goals. If we desire to achieve something, we don’t know how much of it to “ achieve”.
In simple words, there is no limit, no extent, no satisfaction point.
As a result, our goals seem enormous and we are overwhelmed by the thought of achieving them. Procrastination seems like an easy way out: we’re not giving up, we’re just putting it off until it’s time.
To accomplish something you first need to clearly define what that something is. Here comes the reference point.
A reference point, as the name suggests, is a benchmark you use to set your goals. Think of it as a mark you can use to determine whether you’ve accomplished something or not. This reference point also determines exactly how much you need to work.
For example, I want to lose weight. I don’t define my goal as “ I want to be slim”. Rather, I give myself a reference point like “ 65 kg is the weight I want to be ”.
The 65 kg benchmark helps me determine whether I’ve achieved something or not. Above 65, no problem. Keep working. 65 or below, good I’ve reached my goal.
Defining aims in clear-cut rather than abstract, unquantifiable terms makes them appear easy and helps you take relevant steps to move towards them. It prevents the mental lethargy that prevails when something seems vague.
Here are some ways in which you can define other goals:
1. To make money: Instead of aiming to make money, define how much you want to make, then start working towards that target.
2. To upgrade your skills: Determine how much you want to upgrade your professional skills. Then do whatever it takes to do it: certifications, courses, etc.
3. To be productive: Your Goal should be the amount of tasks you want to complete in a certain time period.
4. To write more: Set a reference point for the number of articles you aim to write per month. Set aside days when you will take a break from writing. Divide the number by the remaining days.
