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Dating at 80: What Does That Feel Like?
I was shocked by what my soon 80-year-old half-sister was looking for in a partner.
If I’m blessed with longevity to the ripe age of 80, my thoughts might have differed from my older sister’s. Dating would probably not be on my mind unless it were with the man I’d married and grown old with.
Even so, my expectations of a partner are usually simpler than my sister's. At 54, I hope my partner shows me respect, is not broke, and communicates well.
I tossed my head on the pillow, trying to process the conversation my sister and I had earlier.
Having outlived two husbands, my sister is seriously searching for a special someone. She has even created a profile on a popular seniors’ dating site after missing the application deadline for The Golden Bachelor, a recent popular TV series that gave older folks hope that finding love is possible at any age. However, I’m sure that reality differs from the staged National TV experience.
Within hours of combing through a list of online suitors, my sister found a man 30 years her junior.
She couldn’t stop talking about him.
But after a few weeks of telephoning, sending love notes, and text messages, the excitement soon disappears. She was…
