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Distance, Alone Time, Questions and Redefinition of Life

I promise you’ll get to the point why I chose the rice picture for this article :)

I was always under the apprehension that the best life is the life to conform to what normal looks like. Being a beautiful, graceful, and intelligent woman with a lovely family and great house. Life is about having it all or being a loser. I have wanted it for quite some time. I thought life starts when the conformity checklist has been fulfilled. Yet, while I wished for everything to come one by one, I had gotten different things lining up in an order…



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Fatmawati Santosa

sharing thoughts, experience, and lessons learned | an engineer on working days and a dreamer for most of the time :)