Do Narcissists Hurt You Intentionally?

So they are innocent?

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Since narcissism is a personality disorder and it falls under the dark triad, which represents antagonistic personalities, most of us assume that narcissists intentionally hurt people.

Well, how true is that? Only partly!

So does that mean that narcissists don’t hurt you intentionally? Most of the time, yes, they do not hurt you intentionally.

So they are innocent? 100% no!

They did not hurt us intentionally, and they are still not innocent. I know it sounds hypocritical, but there’s a perfect explanation for their mess.

They Don’t Mean to Hurt Us, But They Are Still the Villains, Why?

They might not do or say something to hurt people, but whatever they do is out of their sheer lack of consideration of how their actions might affect someone.

That means that they do not care about their actions and their impact on people. They are impulsive and give quick reactions to everything, and their reactions are mostly in the form of aggression or hurtful words.

So these are their instincts, which are not meant to hurt you. And they might not even know that their actions are hurtful until you react in a bad…