Don’t Take Revenge
When people hurt you, deal with wisdom!
Wisdom doesn’t mean you will not get hurt or that you will not have problems; rather, it means your way of recognizing, perceiving, and solving problems will change.
I would like to share my thoughts on how to make yourself calm and happy, especially when someone has hurt you!
It’s natural to feel the urge for revenge when you’ve been hurt,
You may find yourself constantly pondering why they did this to you……
Holding onto these thoughts feels like a burden of debt to be paid
Believe me, thinking in this way indeed makes you feel more hurt
Love and kindness are the solutions to all problems. I am not talking about loving and caring for those who hurt you, but rather for yourself.
Remember, you cannot become fully happy while carrying the baggage of complaints about all those who hurt you.
Let’s understand this with an example:
Imagine carrying a heavy backpack filled with rocks. Each rock represents a complaint against someone who hurt you. As you carry this burden, it is hard to move forward and experience joy in life.
Now, imagine setting down that backpack and letting go of the rocks one by one. As you release each burden, you feel lighter and freer.
It's like you have a big container of pure water, and negativity is like black drops that ultimately make it impure.
So let it go.
Forgiving doesn’t mean starting the same thing again
“Absolutely not”
It means forgiving them for what they did, and now, let them lose you.
It’s a real revenge that “they lost you”……
If someone says bad words to you or backbite this is what they can do.
You do what you know, and you know love and pure intentions for you and others…..
I know there are people you can’t talk to, so do this silently: be quiet and pray for them.
Because believe me, they need more love and prayers than you do.
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