8 Things Highly Confident People Don’t Do

Farrukh Jamal
ILLUMINATION
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3 min readMar 12, 2020
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Here in this story I’m going to highlight about — 8 Things Highly Confident People Don’t Do.

I have some Queries before starting it.

Do you often get confused in gatherings or Do you usually feel inferiority seeing others more confident than you?

If it has been happening then you are suffering from lack of confidence and probably you must have realized it already.

A major quality of confidence it can be recognized easily. If someone comes with a positive attitude it can be observed. Observing confidence is easy — being confident is something else. However, by applying some of the habits it can be possible. Here you will learn these functional habits and makes you stand confidently in front of people.

By reading these habits you can examine the scale of your confidence level and by applying these over you can set your impact.

Eight habits of confident people are

Confident People never afraid of taking risks :

Fearlessly a confident person goes with risk either get succeed or not. Besides, to have no fear of failure and never get nervous serving the words in any discussion without having a fear of getting wrong. Confident people grasp mistakes as an opportunity instead of taking personally. However, hesitant people often terrified of insulting.

“The biggest risk is not taking a risk.”
-Mark Zuckerberg

Confident People never highlight bragging :

In any circumstances, a confident person does not show the noise of actions. Having a habit of bragging certainly indicates a habit of self-doubt. Mostly hesitant people exaggerate their actions to somebody to make them convinced that they exist in society and feel a little relaxed. However, they feel inside of having a lack of worthiness.

Confident People comfortably say ‘No’ instead of saying ‘Yes’.

In many cases of denying somebody, hesitant ones get feel horrible and mostly turns themselves in trouble, it’s easier to say Yes than No. Therefore, hesitant ones drive to the easiest road. Helping others could be grateful but for those who have been mean to you Or wilfully you don’t want to be a part of some situation, then denying should be more preferable.

Confident is not “‘they will like me.” Confident is “ i’ll be fine if they don’t.”
-Christina Grimmie

Confident People don’t go with everyone’s approval :

Confident behaviors willingly accept people’s opinions who are worthy of them. They don’t value everyone’s thoughts coming towards themselves either well known it’s not the duty of themselves to make everyone happy. However, hesitant ones get influenced by everyone’s opinion and start evaluating themselves on people’s criticism.

Confident People don’t compete with society :

Confident people make changes to improve their individuals and learn from mistakes to make it far better. Competing with somebody takes the way of envy. Moreover, you can never be satisfied with life by constantly recurring it. It makes clear — competing with every third person shows your self-esteem level. However, confident people consider more to make superior personalities in society.

Confident People are not a perfectionist :

Having issues of self-esteem, most people try to display their roles as a perfectionist. It could be a sign of insecurity. However, confident ones never dread of being wrong and accept mistakes besides learn from it.

Confident People are not easily get influenced :

To turn the perception of confident people is not as easy that, they hardly letting somebody dominate over self. However, hesitant people could be influenced easily by any commercials. For example,

if someone has a dim-faced color, a fairness product on commercials can easily make them influenced because of uncertainty over self.

Confident People don’t chase after social media :

Conventionally confident people don’t have much believe what they see on social media. Life could be different from what netizens reflect people through social networks. However, confident people emphatically prefer realism and practicality. Social media could be a reason to harm brains who carry self-doubt.

“Self-confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings”
-Samuel Johnson.

Never be dreadful of coming consequences as a coward does.
Do believe in making a breakthrough and confront every circumstance with self-confidence. Then you will find something beyond to your imagination. I am going to end this here, if they can do, why not I?

Best of luck!

Thank You.

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Farrukh Jamal
ILLUMINATION

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