Excellent article. An overall takeaway is the power of meaningful engagement with the stories of others. Do not fear disagreement being equal to gaslighting. That stifling of your own contributions to the discussions is self-gaslighting.

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Shout-outs — that’s claptrap
Egos love their attachments
but fear engagements
Share your views and thoughts with me
Feelings — true intimacy


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