Fear & Self-Abandonment: A Surefire Way To Poor Boundaries and Not Getting What You Want
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It can be tempting to overlook red flags and mixed signals when dating someone new. Equally, it can be easy to overlook bad or harmful behaviour with someone you love.
Rather than face-up to what reality is presenting us and confront someone for the way they are behaving, or not behaving, we’d rather turn a blind eye.
But in my experience, this always leads to more harm than good — if not immediately, then certainly in the long-run.
Only in the smoke and ashes of the broken relationship can we look back and think, “the signs were there”.
It’s important we’re able to take notice of potential red flags and call them out when we see them.
But in order for us to do this we have to have healthy boundaries, something many of us lack.
Why is it we struggle with setting boundaries?
That’s what we’re talking about in todays article.
Boundaries: Self-Abandonment & Fear
In order for us to stand up for our wants/needs we have to speak up.
