Feeling Lost In Your 20s??
If you are feeling lost in your 20s, you do not need to think much about it, because if you think too much about it, it does not make way for you to walk, but it blocks your way.
It can heavily influence your mental health which is essential for your development in your 20s.
You need to care about your health, especially your mental health because it is your driver that can lead you to your destiny.
You need to work on your abilities and strengths to boost your performance rather than wasting too much time on worrying about your journey.
Believe me, if you’re worrying too much, you are doing nothing, just spilling over your time which is one of the biggest assets of your life.
You should be careful to invest the time of your life because you know life is too short, know the value of time, and use it accordingly.
In your 20s, your focus should be on your health and productivity rather than feeling bad to stop doing work.
Always be in a dynamic position and do not force yourself to a static position, it can help you to learn and earn much more in your life.
So, what you have to do is just focus on yourself and kill the bad practice, things will get better and better over time.
1. Focus on learning skills
In your 20s, your main focus should be on learning new skills.
Learn digital and soft skills as much as you can that pay you a decent income.
Some of the skills, like web development, copywriting, app development, video editing, speaking skills, problem-solving skills, and all kinds of skills that you need to learn.
These skills can help you to transform your life.
You can earn up to six or even seven figures as well.
You can start your service business with these skills and over time can level up your business to make your things more progressive.
It pays you much more than you imagine.
Don’t feel lost, kill your excuses, start learning one of these skills, and make yourself master it, you will be rewarded with a handsome return.
If you have excuses like you don’t have enough money to learn these skills, you are wrong, you can learn these skills free of cost.
YouTube and Google are amazing and free platforms where you can learn any skill you want with zero money investment.
So, don’t make excuses, start working on these skills, and you will feel good over time.
2. Focus on acquiring more knowledge
Knowledge has power, absolutely knowledge is one of the most powerful tools to measure or overcome your problems.
Knowledge can help you to find new ideas, streams, and ways to make yourself more productive.
Make yourself obsessive with the constant accumulation of knowledge, and I think it is an amazing and healthy practice.
You should not worry much about it because I think it is not very difficult to acquire knowledge.
I have been using different streams to level up my knowledge, like reading books, writing my ideas, or watching YouTube or podcasts, etc, and all kinds of ways help me to boost my knowledge.
I feel good doing it, I love such ways.
You can also use these ways to boost your knowledge.
You need to break the streak of procrastination and build some habits that can help you acquire or maximize your knowledge level.
So, think about it and start working on it to boost your knowledge.
3. Gain more experience
You may have noticed or observed, that when you apply for a job, the most viral question an interviewer asks you is, how much experience do you have?
They give the experience more priority over your degree.
Yes, and it is the power of your experience because experience makes your theoretical concepts more solid.
It makes you feel confident to work.
It helps you to free yourself from the fear of something that can disturb you.
Always look for an opportunity and when you find it, grab it to boost your experience.
Experience can make you a unique product in the market.
You can say experience is directly related to your productivity, as much as you have experience.
Your productivity figures will automatically increase.
Let’s take an example you want to become a writer, you can gain experience by working for someone else in your niche, you can write articles and stories for someone to boost your experience, and it can add good value in your profile as well.
If you want to become a software developer, you can work with a software agency to acquire experience, it can help you to understand the trends and transformations in the market.
So, these are some of the examples that you can take to start acquiring more experience in your field, it helps you a lot in your journey.
4. Don’t care what people think
It acts as a barrier for most of the individuals who are in their 20s to get started.
It blocks their ways to start.
Most young individuals are afraid of the question
What do people think, If I do it?
What do people think, if I cannot perform well?
all kinds of questions are doing nothing, just blocking your way to get started.
Stop thinking too much about this question, stop investing your energy on this disturbing question.
Do start working on your idea in your mind, focus on your ideas rather than such poor questions.
No one cares about what you are doing, you care about yourself what you are doing.
Focus on your will, focus on your plans, and focus on your ideas to make your things more progressive.
If someone or some group stops you or disturbs you in your journey, just ignore them, and keep going on with your work.
Don’t answer them with your mouth, answer them with your work, and I believe if you invest your energy and time in the right things, one-day such persons or groups will wait to meet with you.
So, keep going on with your ideas and your will, and stop thinking about what people think. It pays you a lot more in your journey than you think.
5. Keep updating yourself
Don’t ignore the power of updating yourself.
Always try to add new features in yourself like you may have noticed in your cell phones where software companies keep updating their software to beat other competitors in the market.
Same like that, there is competition out there and you need to make yourself unique from your competitors, because of that, you need to keep yourself updated with time.
If you do not work on this point of updating, keep in mind, that your competitors are working on it, your competitors are investing their time, energy, and money to make their product unique in the market that can hit a good figure in sales.
Now, you may feel the power of updating, you do not take big big steps, take smaller and impactful steps daily that can contribute to rewarding you in your future.
As James Clear explained in his book Atomic Habit, improve yourself daily by 1%, over time, this 1% improvement adds up to transform your life.
If you want to read more about it, I would recommend you to read this book on atomic habits, although this book is basically about building new habits that can help you transform your life.
So, what you have to do is just keep yourself updated throughout your journey and try to make yourself a unique product in the market.
So, these are some of the ways that you can use to feel better.
