Finding love can be hard
6 Reasons why it may be difficult for you
Do you ever feel like everyone else in your life is already in a stable relationship except you, finding yourself wondering why you still have not found the one person you are going to spend the rest of your life with? Despite being successful, attractive, charming, and financially well off, you still can’t find the right person to settle down with.
While careers and jobs give us something to do and financial support we need. There is so much more to life than working, like the love and support from others. Without this, life can be dull. Asking anyone that is done with dating guys that keep breaking their heart or someone that is still waiting to meet the perfect girl. Whether they are still young and looking for love or someone in their 50’s after a divorce, it is always ok to feel frustrated that they can’t find someone they love.
What might be keeping you from finding the right person? Here are 6 reasons why that might be the case.
1. You’re not looking in the right places
Bars and parties aren’t the place to find the love of your life, but sometimes, life isn’t as black and white as that. Maybe someone is looking too hard, making moves on the first person that acknowledges their existence. They are scoping out the crowd and looking too hard when maybe the answer is right in front of them. Forgetting the people that are already in their lives. Sometimes you can find love in the most unexpected places.
2. Your standards are too high
It’s always healthy to want someone that you deserve, and not settling with someone that you don’t think is good enough. But sometimes people just set their standards way too high. If you have been searching for someone for a long time but you just cannot find anyone that comes close to your standards, maybe its time to rethink and consider lowering them. Maybe your ideal partner just does not exist. Not everyone is going to have the same interest or hobbies as you.
TV shows and movies have set such an unrealistic standard about love and romance. Seeing a “perfect” relationship on social media can also set your standards higher than they should be. The posts…