Be grateful!

How 1,000 Strangers Helped Me Find My Purpose Again

In this world — there are no strangers.

Mila
ILLUMINATION
Published in
3 min readSep 18, 2021

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Everything in life happens for a reason. Strangers enter our lives with a purpose. Once a stranger saved me from being homeless in Tokyo.

I will be always grateful to him.

Recently I stumbled upon a profound article written by Bernie’s Daughter where she speaks of her achievements in life.

Not so long ago, I measured achievements by my bank statements, work titles, cities visited or degrees earned — just like the society would like us to. This toxic belief has made me sick.

I was motivated for the wrong reasons because I didn’t value myself enough. I had this toxic belief that I was not good enough. I still often struggle with this but I decided to change it.

This year I’ve experienced a lot of losses.

I’ve lost my childhood friend. I’ve lost my best friend. I’ve lost my freedom.

I’ve also managed somehow to lose $35,000.

Most importantly I’ve lost myself along the way. Somehow nothing excited me as much as it did before. I could not find a reason to be motivated to do certain things.

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Mila
ILLUMINATION

Writer, Screenwriter, Role Model and just ultra-cool babe. I’m fearless. I’m a writer. I don’t quit. I use my imagination to inspire others! I know who I am!