How Science Shows The Damaging Effects of Ego On Career Success
Overcome your ego and make this mindset shift.
A successful former colleague of mine is someone who publicly, is without any airs. Privately, she believes she should be in an even bigger position than the one she’s in. She acknowledges she’s doing great work and receiving recognition for it. But like any person with a burning passion and desire, she wants much more.
I think she’s one of the best at her profession. She’s genuine, authentic and very hard-working. She seems to have it all. Yet I find that her ego is often at odds with how she’s perceived.
My friends, this is both a blessing and a curse. Here’s why:
Ego is a tightrope act you will walk personally, professionally, publicly and privately your whole life. Achieve success of any kind, you’ll find external recognition for your accomplishments. You’ll feel good on the inside. Ideally, this will lead to confidence and perseverance, rather than an inflated sense of self-worth which only leads to the pursuit of the next “high.”
This high can never truly be satisfied by any accomplishment. It’s driven by pride and ego, which will push you further away from what you truly desire at your inner core.