How to Be A Better Lover to Your Partner
“Do what you did at the beginning of a relationship and there won’t be an end.” — Tony Robbins
We all can use a little help being better lovers. Here’s why:
Think of it. At the beginning of any relationship, everything happens perfectly. You’re head over heels in love and you can’t imagine a day without your partner.
But this initial rush of excitement doesn’t last forever.
Every relationship will get to that point where things become too familiar. You’ve traveled to places you wanted to, you know almost everything about each other, and nothing appears to be exciting anymore.
This, however, doesn’t mean every relationship is designed to end in doom. What this means is that at some point, impulse and hormones are not going to be enough for you to be an amazing lover. You’ll need deliberate effort. No wonder Jordan Peterson wrote in Rule 10 of his book, Beyond Order,
“Plan and work diligently to maintain the romance in your relationship.”
In the long run, you’ll need to make plans and take deliberate steps to make your relationship flourish. That said, here are practical things you can do today to be a better lover.
