How to Destroy Doubt and Become Great at Choosing the Harder Path
A step-by-step approach to becoming who you want to be
Knowing what’s best for you and doing it are two different ballgames.
On the one hand, you have who you want to be — brave, bold, enthusiastic. On the other, you have doubt, fear, and excuses. Every decision is a battle, and the outcome defines who you become.
Playing it safe feels easy, but it comes at a cost you should never be willing to pay.
Who’s Winning Your Fight?
James Clear once said, “Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” But most people aren’t intentional with their choices. Instead, they react to how they feel in the moment — choosing emotion over reason.
I used to be this person, and it was slowly destroying me.
Crippling confidence left me with few friends and severe self-loathing. And my actions only reinforced my hell.
Instead of facing anxiety, I’d play World of Warcraft from dusk till dawn. Instead of building confidence, I hid from the world.
Instead of making myself happy, I normalized what made me miserable.
