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ILLUMINATION

How to people please without losing our true selves

From a collectivist Chinese living in the individualist West

Bernice Tong for Unsplash

In a collective society, people-pleasing is expected for social harmony. Our personal preferences aren’t always a priority. I want to give a fresh take on how to people please without losing our true selves. And why it’s really not a bad thing to be a people pleaser!

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