Starting the Conversation about Smartphone Addiction with Your Children

Erwin Lima
ILLUMINATION
Published in
4 min readJul 30, 2020

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We don’t have all the answers, but maybe we can start asking the right questions

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My twelve-year-old son was actually talking on the phone.

For longer than one minute, and not to ask a gaming- or pc-related question to one of his uncles. Instead, he was having a relaxed and lightly giddy conversation with one of my closest and best friends. I took this shot with my son’s own phone, I thought it was an interesting moment.

And it reminded me.

I was visiting another friend the other day — one of these special people who, when you self-publish a book, takes the time and effort to order one for themselves. Awesome.

He introduced me to his kids — who I was meeting for the first time — as the writer of the book he had recently gotten, and said to his oldest daughter (I think she’s 9):

“I think this might actually be an interesting book for you as well; it’s about screen-time and how much time we spend on digital devices.”

This reminded me heavily of a conversation I had had with people in a workshop I had led back at a congress in…

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Erwin Lima
ILLUMINATION

Exploring and maximising human potential. I write about tech, marketing, writing, love, money, society; life. Find my newest book here: https://lifebeyond.one/