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How To Talk To Someone You Like

A straightforward method

Ahmad Hamzeh
ILLUMINATION
Published in
4 min readApr 8, 2024

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Seeking love is natural, and not knowing what to say or do when the opportunity presents itself is normal.

Many people advise along the lines of ‘the more you try, the better you become’ which is a 100% foolproof method. But many people haven’t had significant experiences at a young age, which led them now to fear rejection and humiliation.

The older we get, the more our reputation seems fragile and important. We want to guard it with our lives. This is why we avoid attracting as much negative attention as possible. And this is holding many people back from approaching the ones they like and presenting themselves properly.

This Makes People Fake

How? Simply put, people will opt for what they think works best when they are hesitant and don’t know how to act properly.

And when this method proves effective, they will hide their true colors until they get what they want.

Attention! This doesn’t mean that they will have bad intentions with others. This merely means that the person they’re introducing to others is a filtered image of who they are, which can lead to hard conversations later on.

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Ahmad Hamzeh
ILLUMINATION

Civil Engineer | SEO Copywriter / Content Creator - I Write Strategic Copy That'll Grow Your Audience.