If someone’s point of view is different from yours, that doesn’t mean they are your enemy.
I am reading a book called "Everything is F*cked". In the 3rd chapter of this book, the author discusses Newton’s 3 Laws of Emotions.
"The 3rd law states that your identity will remain your identity until a new experience contradicts it."
In which he says that our life experiences shape our identity. He also says that we love the people who have the same opinions, likes, and dislikes.
And sometimes we hate people who have a different point of view or who have different likes and dislikes.
We love the people who praise us, who always appreciate us. We don’t like people who don’t praise us, who don’t appreciate us.
But I have a question.
Do we need only those people who appreciate us, who always support us, or listen to us?
My answer is NO because we need balance in life. We need both types of people. We need people who have the same opinion, and we also need people who have different opinions.
Some writers may ask, "Why do we need people who have different opinions?"
Because to grow in life, to look at our mistakes, to become better versions of ourselves, sometimes we need a different perspective.
For example, I was writing blogs on Medium for a very long time, and everyone appreciated me for my writing. But nobody told me about my grammar mistakes.
Then, one day, a writer told me about my grammar mistakes and suggested some apps to correct them.
I am thankful for all writers who read my blogs without complaining, and I thank that writer who told me about my mistake.
In life, we need people who tell us our mistakes.
So please tell me about one thing that you like and one thing you dislike about my writing. So that I can become a good writer.
Thank you for reading.
