Is a Woman Good or Bad? Just Look at Who She Likes to Hang Out With
Understanding the Impact of Social Circles on Personal Growth and Relationships
This society is complicated. You might be warmed by someone’s casual comfort for a long time, but you might not know that the same person is also the one who put you in this awkward situation. Life is like this, and love is like this too.
Those sweet words that make you happy are just ways to play with you. You’ve never really been in their heart.
People are sometimes forced to act. The world is cold. If you can play, keep playing. If you can’t, get out. People are hard to understand. You can see their face but not their heart. You can pour your heart out but can’t grasp their feelings.
Even though things are hard, life goes on. No matter how terrible people you’ve met, you’ll still have hope for love.
If a person loses hope for life and the desire for happiness, then living is no different from being dead.
When dealing with people, we can’t control how good or bad others are, but we can control our choices. We can choose to associate with fake good people who wear masks, or we can choose to associate with fake bad people who are tough-mouthed but soft-hearted.
To judge a woman’s character, the key is to see if she prefers to hang out with men or women.
This needs to be looked at in different situations. First, if a woman is single, she enjoys enough freedom. She is not restricted in any way, physically or mentally.
So it’s okay for her to choose to hang out with men or women. Maybe she chooses to associate with men to increase her chances of finding love.
But be careful, if she chooses to hang out with married men, things will change.
Although the law doesn’t restrict married people in their emotional behavior, from a moral standpoint, once you’ve chosen a partner, you need to be absolutely faithful, at least during the marriage.
For women, knowing that a man is married, you should keep a distance from him. Don’t cause unnecessary harm to his family and wife.
So when a single woman chooses to hang out with married men, it shows that she doesn’t have high moral standards. This kind of woman with twisted values, her character is not good, you should stay away.
Another situation is when a woman is married. Her choice is also very important.
Since you’ve decided to spend the rest of your life with someone and have a legal marriage relationship, you no longer have absolute freedom like when you were single.
First, learn to keep a distance from other men to avoid causing trouble and harm to your family, especially your spouse.
Even if your relationship is gone and your marriage has come to an end, you still need to have basic moral standards. As long as you are married for one day, you should stick to this bottom line and make sure you don’t cross it.
If the man you’re hanging out with is also married, then this kind of behavior will only hurt more innocent people.
Of course, everyone’s personality is different, so the people who suit them are also different.
Some women are naturally rejected by other women. For example, Chen Xuejun in “The Best of Us” didn’t do anything wrong, but she was rejected by all the girls in the class, forcing her to hang out with boys.
This kind of woman is not uncommon in life. Maybe they just haven’t mastered the art of getting along with women, or maybe it’s just their personality. Their intentions are not that complicated.
Although it’s understandable for these women to hang out with men, the type of men they choose and the distance they keep from them are important.
As mentioned above, married men are definitely not suitable. And if you’re married yourself, you should try to reduce contact with other men as much as possible.
At the same time, some relationships with men are just ordinary colleague or classmate relationships. Besides basic polite greetings, there’s no other communication.
Some are just ordinary friends. You can all go out to eat and chat, but you’re not at the center of each other’s lives. There’s a long way to go before you can talk about everything.
Then there are intimate relationships without distance. This is okay if both of you are single. Otherwise, it will only lead to endless trouble.
The people you spend time with will shape your life. If you spend time with hardworking people, you won’t be lazy. If you spend time with positive people, you won’t be depressed. If you walk with wise people, you will be extraordinary. If you associate with great people, you can reach the peak.
This is in line with the old saying “If you are near vermilion, you will be tinged red; if you are near ink, you will be tinged black.” Whether it’s choosing a lover or a friend, the basic character of the other person is very important.
It not only affects whether the relationship can last but also your overall happiness.
So, when you choose to move from being strangers to being familiar, you must see the true character hidden behind the other person’s mask!
