Is Being Single Suck.

ROSHNA
ILLUMINATION
Published in
2 min readJan 17, 2024
Photo by Jess Bailey on Unsplash

Randomly I had a thought.

yes, it does suck .when you see your friend taking selfies to provide for their boyfriend it sucks. When you see your best friend lost in her phone when you have all gossip built up and she was just not that interested it sucks. When you attend a wedding and everyone got curious about you it sucks. Hell … yeah being single is sometimes unbearable.

Lust feeling when you hope that what is the feeling of hugging someone. what if someone calls you every time little to know how you doing. The butterfly stomach and the craving for the intimacy at that time it suck. when you are constantly being positive about finding the one but can’t even know how to do a proper conversation it sucks.

is it the jealousy that is telling you should have it too? Well .. maybe.

So does that mean, your ultimate goal is to find that one person anyhow? , Well not.

Having someone by your side is amazing like heaven. Having someone you can talk to, hug, kiss, hold, and cry is heaven on earth. But that does not mean everyone is finding heaven on earth. Well no.

Their's break up, divorce, fighting, and all kinds of criminal offenses were done in relation.

So, does it mean I have to be like scared and search properly?

Yes I mean you should. Falling in love is a blessing but sometimes it just seems like a blessing just for the time being.

Well, I do not understand what it means.

Should I love or be in love or not love? or just stay single. but I don’t want to .it’s ok even if I get dumped. it’s ok even if I end up being divorced. I want to experience it.

Just love wholeheartedly when you can. The risk is in everything. You can’t just predict negativity and stop your hormones.

Don’t get swayed by emotion doesn’t mean being suspicious all the time.

It’s hell-irritating when someone gets offended at things that just don’t matter.

If you looking forward to being in love just go ahead. I wish you all the best.

Rest is life. complexity can happen and you will move on. Stay true to yourself. This is it. Nothing matters other than that.

you can if you want to.

It’s suck-up love.

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