Is Flirty Libra the One? Check out How to Win Them Over

Ana Klikovac
ILLUMINATION
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5 min readSep 24, 2023

Tonight, I’m gonna give you all my love in the back seat…

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It’s high time for fabulous Libras to shine! Libra is incredibly near and dear to my heart because my long time best friend is a Libra and she’s just sweetest and kindest and most loving Libra ever, so it is an honor to share all about her wonderful sign.

So, without further ado, let’s get this show on the road!

Characteristics

Libra is the second air sign and the third Cardinal sign of the Zodiac. Libra is represented by the scales, which visually describe their innate talent for keeping life in perfect balance. Venus, the planet of love, romance and beauty is Libra’s ruling planet, making them incredibly beautiful people, both inside and out.

Libras are typically known for their grace and their ability to captivate the people around them with their effortless charm. They have this elegant way of being that gets them very far in life. Libras just know how to make things work for them in all cases, whether it means getting somebody to like them, or nailing a job opportunity.

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Apart from their stunning beauty and charm, Libras have also been blessed with an undeniable sense for justice. They want everything to be fair and they fight for everyone to have equal opportunities in their inner circles and sometimes even in the broader sense. This makes Libras exceptional in the field of law where their natural talent can really shine.

Physically speaking, most Libras are stunningly beautiful people. They are slim, tall or average height and they have strikingly symmetrical facial features. Their God-given good looks afford them lots of attention from potential suitors, as well as great successes in beauty industry.

Interests

As it was mentioned above, Libras are tender, beautiful, charming and incredibly romantic individuals, and as such they tend to gravitate towards interests that match how they feel inside. They have love for romantic movies and poetry and love songs, too.

Because they are also quite intelligent, they enjoy events, people and activities that allow them to expand their knowledge. This could be anything from taking specialized courses in the field that interests them, or learning through watching videos or listening to podcasts or reading. Libras’ thirst for knowledge cannot be understated.

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Because of their love for beauty, Libras are also interested in makeup, fashion, fitness, but also design. They have an exceptional eye for detail and know how to make their surroundings look and feel cozy and beautiful. This gift also makes them great artists. Many Libras are known to enjoy painting, drawing and even composing music.

Their artistic ability also extends to writing. Because they are an Air sign with Venus as their ruler they are gifted with the ability to speak their mind, but to do so gently and to know how to move people with their writing.

Relationships

Dating a Libra is a breeze because they are so sweet and accommodating. You can never be at odds with a Libra for too long because their aim is to find common ground in all of their relationships, especially romantic ones. If an issue occurs, Libra will be the first one to jump in an try to solve it with their partner.

They main problem, however is indecisiveness. Libras want love and long-term partnership, but they have trouble committing to just one person. They want to explore as many options as possible and date many different people before settling down with their one true love.

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Indecisiveness also causes issues when they actually decide to commit and give their all to their partner because it makes them slow to react which causes irritability and distress in their relationships. This also makes them a bit passive which can also cause some disbalance.

However, that is just a minor aspect to be aware of. Their inability to make decisions can be swept under the rug because of all of their other redeeming qualities that make them astonishing partners. Libras are masters at romantic relationships because they are literally built to know how to make them work from the get-go.

Sex

Sex with a Libra is as beautiful as every other aspect they bring to the table. Libras have a way of knowing exactly what buttons to push in order to drive their partner totally insane. Their striking beauty also adds to the experience.

Intelligent and romantic, Libras have all of the bases covered. They approach sex from a heart, body, soul and mind points of view because they are keenly aware of that sex is more than just physical. Oftentimes you’ll find Libra lovers who are pros at foreplay. Oral is undoubtedly one of their fortes.

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Their attention to detail and love of beauty and style further adds to the experience. Libra lovers will pay attention to the ambiance, they will make sure the lighting is appropriate, the bedroom is nicely decorated, everything is smooth and clean and smells good. They will also put on sexy lingerie because they know it will turn on their partner and it makes them feel fine, too.

Tips on dating a Libra

If you believe Libra is the one for you here are some tips on dating a Libra native. The first thing you need to know is you have to present yourself in a gentlemanly or ladylike manner because that truly matters to a Libra. Good manners can never be understated.

You have to be polite, understanding, patient and reasonable with a Libra. Pay attention to them. Support them. Never take them for granted. Make sure you always tell them how beautiful and intelligent they are because that will get you very far with a Libra.

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Always say how you feel and be open to communicate about about anything and everything with your Libra partner. Silent treatment will get you nowhere. You have to be open and honest at all times. Libras can’t stand mind games and dishonest people.

Overall, Libras are really easy to get along with. They don’t fuss or whine about much. They are pretty easy-going and fair-balanced people, hence why they are always popular in the dating scene.

Have you ever dated a Libra? What has your experience been like?

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Ana Klikovac
ILLUMINATION

Curious soul, exploring the world through written creation | Instagram: @kannchywrites & @kannchy96 | Email: ana.klikovac8@gmail.com