Is Your Wife Having an Emotional Affair?
When a Woman Has These 4 Unusual Behaviors in a Marriage, She’s Probably Fallen for Another Man
Some people say a stable marriage is like a game of matching.
You need what the other person has, and you have what the other person needs. It has to match up.
Many couples get together because of love, but end up losing it to the everyday grind. The care and attention they used to have for each other disappears in the symphony of dishes and pots.
The woman starts to be disappointed in the man, thinking marriage isn’t what she imagined and even regretting getting married. The man also feels the woman isn’t as sweet and cute as she was before they got married.
When a couple has different ideas about their marriage and isn’t working together anymore, it’s easy to be influenced and attacked by outside forces. For women, once they’ve set their mind on something, it’s hard to turn back.
When a woman has these 4 unusual behaviors in a marriage, she’s probably fallen for another man. If you can spot the problem early and deal with it quickly, maybe you can save your relationship.
They Stop Communicating and Just Start a Cold War
Before, you two had endless things to talk about. She would tell you about anything new and exciting that happened to her, taking pictures or writing things down to show you. Even something small could make you laugh together.
But you noticed she doesn’t talk to you as much anymore. You used to disagree and fight, but now she doesn’t even bother.
You look at her and feel like you’re looking at a stranger. She doesn’t fight or make a fuss, but you’re like a clown. Her heart isn’t with you anymore.
Maybe she’s built up so much disappointment, maybe she’s run out of feelings for you. She doesn’t love you anymore, so she doesn’t care about anything you do.
Before, you’d fight and make up within a couple of days. But now, even if you try to make things right, she doesn’t accept it. She just keeps up the cold war.
Even if you try to talk to her, she seems reluctant. You’re not her focus anymore. She doesn’t care about anything you do.
A woman who’s fallen for someone else is really hard to get back.
It takes a long time for things to get this bad. A marriage falling apart is never just one person’s fault.
Why did she used to accept your apologies and efforts, but now she’s lost interest and doesn’t want to talk to you? It’s simply because her feelings have changed.
They Hate You Touching Their Phone
A phone is the most sensitive thing between a couple. Today, a phone is more than just for making calls. It’s a mobile device, and that small screen holds everyone’s most private secrets.
Even the most loving couples can fight because of a phone.
If your wife is always on her phone at home, even taking it to the bathroom, sneaking around to answer calls, sending messages behind your back… and if you accidentally touch her phone, she blows up at you, she’s probably seeing someone else. Don’t doubt it.
A woman’s love is often obvious. It’s hard to hide whether you love someone or not.
When she loves you, everything about her is yours. She’s totally open with you about her phone. You can touch it however you want, and she won’t say anything. She might even show you things on it.
But when she has secrets, her phone can easily become a trigger for fights.
They’re Always Making Sarcastic Comments About You
Some people say to see if a woman really loves you, look at how she treats you when you’re struggling. If she’s willing to be with you through thick and thin, she loves you.
If a woman truly loves a man, she doesn’t care about how much money he has. Even if they have to struggle together, she’s happy. She might even use her own money to help him.
When she loves him, she’s happy even if they have nothing. She’ll constantly encourage him, believe in him, and support him in building his own career. She’ll be there for him silently.
She loves him, so she always believes he’s not an ordinary man and will succeed one day.
But when a woman has fallen for someone else, she’ll unconsciously compare her man to the other guy, thinking he’s not good enough in every way. Especially when they fight, she’ll say things without thinking, being sarcastic and hurtful.
Because she doesn’t love him anymore, she doesn’t care. She might even say mean things just to get rid of him and go after the life she wants.
They Refuse to Get Intimate
They say a man’s body and love are separate. You can still have physical urges even if you don’t love someone.
But a woman’s love and body are always faithful to each other. If she doesn’t love a man, it’s hard for her to be intimate with him. She might even hate it.
When a woman loves a man, she likes to have little intimate moments with him. She enjoys the feeling.
When she’s fallen for someone else, even if they’re still married, she’ll be careful about her body and avoid contact with her spouse. She’ll always have an excuse to avoid intimacy.
A woman’s body is loyal to her heart. Her body will only follow her love.
Someone who doesn’t have feelings anymore doesn’t want any physical contact or entanglement.
As Eileen Chang said, “No one leaves you suddenly. Hearts turn cold slowly, leaves turn yellow gradually, stories are written to their conclusion bit by bit, and love turns to hate because of too much disappointment. So in marriage, some people say understanding is more important than love.”
When women get married, they have a lot of expectations. They want to build a happy life with their loved ones.
But some people lose sight of their original goals on the path of marriage. The wedding vows are still fresh in their ears, but their love has faded.
When a woman loves someone, she doesn’t care about the cost. When she doesn’t love someone, she’s very decisive.
So don’t take her for granted. If you’ve married her, you need to understand that keeping the marriage going is more important than the romantic days before you got married. Don’t let her get too hurt.
Because once she falls for someone else, it’s really hard to get back the sweetness you once shared.
