Liar Liar Pants on Fire
How dangerous can a pathological liar be? Experts tell us all about it
Have you ever been in that awkward situation, fully immersed in conversation with someone who is flat-out lying to you?
Most of us can recall a time when interesting stories slowly emerge into colourful fabrications. Your enthusiasm starts to wane and then a light goes off and you realize you’re not quite getting a true picture. Ugh… it’s such a cringe-worthy moment.
Should you entertain their fairytale, feign an emergency while seeking the nearest exit, or simply, call them out on it?
Social experts say that it’s best to first understand the motive behind the behaviour. If they’re simply exaggerating the truth to try and impress you then it’s probably not compulsive lying. Some lies may be used to avoid hurt feelings or negative consequences. These examples of non-pathological lying are relatively harmless.
However, lying can be more than superficial awe-seeking behaviour or avoiding confrontation. There could be more serious causes such as mental illness.
