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Make Decisions In Difficult Times?

What Is Critical Decision-making?

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It is the process by which we make decisions about what we want to do and how we are going to get there. It is a process that involves a lot of thought and deliberation, and it is one of the most important things we do in our lives.

So, how do we decide what is important and what isn’t? The first thing we need to understand is that there is no such thing as “important” or “non-important”. There are many things that are important to us, but not all of them are equally important. For example, if you are in a relationship with a person who is very good at what they do, you may be very happy with that person. But if that same person is also very bad at their job, it may not be a good fit for you. If you have a job that you really enjoy doing, then you will probably be happy to have that job for the rest of your life.

On the other hand, some things are not as important as you think they are. In fact, they may even be harmful to your health and well-being. So, what are some of those things? What are the risks involved in doing something that is “not important”? How important is it to you that something is not important? (i.e. how much do you care about it?)Are you willing to take the risk of not doing that thing? If not, why not? What is your reason for not taking that risk? Is it because you don’t think it’s important enough to be worth it? Or, are you afraid that doing it will make you feel bad about yourself or that it won’t be as good as it could be?

In either case, is there anything you can do to change your mind about doing the thing you’re not sure you should be doing? Do you know someone who might be able to help you with this? Are there any other people you could talk to about this issue? How can you make sure that this person will be supportive of you in making this decision? This is an important question to ask yourself. Is there something else you would rather do that would be “more important” than doing this particular thing, or would you rather not do it at all? For instance, would it be better to spend more time with your friends or family or to go out and have fun with friends and family? The answer to this question will determine whether or not you take this risk. You can also use this as an opportunity to learn more about your own values and the values of others so that when you do make a decision about something, that decision is based on your values, not on what someone else tells you is right or wrong. Have you thought about the consequences of what you might do? Can you see how this might affect you and your family, friends, co-workers, etc.?

Does it make sense to make this change now, rather than waiting until later in life? Does this make more sense financially, socially, emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually, in terms of how you spend your time and money, as well as the way you interact with others and with the world around you? Will you be happier, healthier, more productive, happier, and more fulfilled in the long run if this is done now than if it was done later on? And so on. These are all very important questions to think about and answer before you commit to a particular course of action.

The more you understand these questions, the more confident you’ll be in your decision-making process and the less likely your decisions will turn out badly.

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