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My Partner Prefers Sex With the Lights On… Me, Off
How do you “play” with your partner?
What’s it like with you guys? Here at home, my partner always wants to do naughty things with the lights on, but that’s definitely not my Shangri-La. I’ve even tried that a few times, but I don’t really like it — It’s like I feel like my body isn’t pretty enough to be seen.
And I think about it a lot, you know? Because… come on, I want to play tricks on my partner every now and then. Is it the same with you? Lol.
But it kind of ends up embarrassing me. Seriously, I don’t really understand — It’s not like I’m overweight or anything like that. It’s more like I’m just afraid to do things like that.
I’ve even tried to negotiate. You know, like a hallway light on, a candle, low-light LEDs, that kind of thing…
I mean, I think it’s better to have a light that enters the room through the cracks in the door than a soccer spotlight shining on us like an alien spaceship trying to abduct us, lol.
He even joked with me saying something like: “Hey honey, that doesn’t count” and I confess that I laughed, but then I thought: “why the hell is that so important to him?”
And what’s more… why does it sound so scary to me?
