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Our Mental Patterns Set the Tone of Our Lives

And some need to be broken

My Love and I have a toxic pattern — we each exercise opposing core values on the eve of our anniversary.

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Last week was our 11th Anniversary — It seems crazy how we have such a milestone considering who we are and what we went through to get here. We are both commitment-phobes, stubborn to a fault, and cannot abide…




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