Persevere and Thrive: How Scientific Research Illuminates the Path to Resilience

Make rejection work for you

Haley Hougardy
ILLUMINATION
7 min readMay 18, 2023

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It’s easy to forget how often we face seemingly insurmountable daily challenges. Not everyone can remain resilient in the face of adversity, yet those who do develop robust skills and ultimately thrive in their personal and professional endeavors. Perseverance and resilience are crucial traits that help us overcome obstacles in pursuing our goals. While perseverance demands unwavering dedication, resilience calls for adapting and quickly recovering from challenging situations. Together, these qualities form a powerful combination that can lead to success in our personal and professional lives.

Job market unpredictability and mass tech layoffs can leave one feeling hopeless. It's natural to feel discouraged when you've dedicated a lot of time and effort to your job search but haven't seen any immediate results. By staying committed to building resilience in the workplace and beyond, you’ll improve your ability to overcome challenges at work and develop skills that can benefit you in all areas of your life.

The journey to success is often riddled with challenges and setbacks. During this process, we discover our unyielding strength and learn how to fuel our souls with boundless perseverance and unwavering resilience. Soon enough, you’ll emerge more assertive, resilient, and better equipped to achieve your goals.

If you’re like me, sometimes, the only way to beat those overwhelming feelings of defeat that accompany resilience building is to analyze the benefits from a scientific perspective.

This article delves into the scientific principles that govern perseverance and resilience. We will discuss the significance of facing and overcoming adversities to cultivate these traits. Additionally, we will touch upon the psychological advantages of having an unwavering commitment to achieving success.

Recognizing the significance of resilience and stress management in our personal and professional lives is essential. We can better understand their importance by delving into the science and psychology behind these qualities. This article aims to inspire and empower by sharing insights from empirical research. Together, let’s embrace the journey toward resilience.

Science and Solutions Behind Perseverance and Resilience

The way we react to stress is impacted by a combination of our genetic makeup, environment, and personal traits. The combination of these elements collaborates to influence our responses and equip us with coping strategies. Increasing our resilience, or the ability to manage high-stress situations, extends beyond just receiving standard psychological treatments. It also involves taking into account our unique circumstances.

By understanding the various mental health factors that affect our ability to persevere, we can develop more effective strategies to overcome them. Therefore, we must prioritize and invest in measures that promote emotional well-being and psychological resilience for all.

Experts suggest that childhood brain development plays a significant role in resilience building as adults. We’re all born with the same brain. It’s an almond-shaped structure called the amygdala that controls our stress management center; it’s responsible for our fear, aggression, and sadness response. Evidence suggests that traumatic experiences during childhood can affect how the brain processes emotions in adolescence.

However, even if you did experience trauma, your ability to manage stressful situations only partially depends on your childhood. A growing body of research suggests that our brain’s ability to adapt can change our power to persevere, even as adults. Thanks to our noggin, we can increase our stress threshold by reframing problems as opportunities for growth or learning. Humans possess an incredible ability to adapt regardless of their history. We are capable of rewiring our mental habits at any point, which gives us the control to break free from the trauma we may have experienced

Look, I know it’s not as simple as saying, “Just don’t be stressed,” because, let’s be honest, if it were that easy, we wouldn’t be having this conversation. I’ve heard my fair share of frustrating remarks like that, too. It’s not helpful. But I know that research shows that our cognitive flexibility can help us make progress. It’s not a cure-all but an essential tool in our arsenal for personal growth and development.

In simple terms, Dana G Smith explains the role of stress in our brain. The prefrontal cortex, the site responsible for our decision-making, plays a massive role in our ability to respond to stress. Basically, when your brain regulates your emotions (like when you calm yourself down after feeling angry), it activates two specific parts of your brain, one of which is the prefrontal cortex. This activation is linked to our executive function, which helps us respond more effectively to threats and challenges.

Neon sign of human brain in head with the title it’s inside us all slightly above and to the left.
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So what can we take away from this? We know from research that the better we are at emotional regulation, the more resilient we become. Emotional regulation is complicated, especially if you’ve experienced erratic stress in childhood. However, the more you can regulate those stress-induced emotions, the better it is for your brain. In fact, there’s evidence to suggest that chronic and unmanaged stress damages connections between your decision-making center and amygdala, which in the long run can cause severe PTSD and anxiety.

As mentioned, there are opportunities to build resilience as adults, even if you experienced trauma or stress as a child. Nurturing resilience takes time and effort, but it’s ultimately worth it. With a resilient mindset, you can overcome challenges and become more assertive on the other side. Let’s look at some tips to help you build resilience and thrive during times of adversity.

How to Maintain Perseverance in Challenging Times and the Benefits of Resiliency

Reframing your thinking and behavior patterns is the first step in building resilience. There was a time when others would tell me to reframe my thoughts, and I would just brush them off. Anyone who has struggled with their mental health can attest that it’s no simple feat to just “think optimistically.” This process became much more attainable once I began a treatment plan that worked for me, but maintaining perseverance during challenging times is still attainable for those who strive for it.

Researchers have identified key traits shared by highly resilient individuals who are able to remain motivated and focused on their goals. These empirical findings reveal that resilience is often associated with adaptability, perseverance, optimism, and social support. By cultivating these qualities, individuals can enhance their ability to overcome challenges and maintain a sense of purpose and direction in their lives.

Let’s see what the research suggests:

  • Optimistic thinking and seeking support: People who are optimistic about the future tend to focus more on problem-solving, regardless of current obstacles. This optimism can make them more assertive and proactive in seeking social support, as they believe that a solution can be found. On the other hand, pessimistic people may be less likely to take action in the face of challenges, as they may feel that the situation is hopeless. Thus, cultivating a sense of optimism can be a valuable asset in both personal and professional contexts. Don’t let anyone convince you this is easy. Remember, it’s a journey that will take time.
  • Flexibility and confidence: We can learn from one of the most resilient groups of people on earth: refugees. Experts researched refugees seeking employment after displacement and found that the most successful people ranked high in confidence regardless of setbacks, were flexible, and seized available opportunities. That said, we can assume that the most resilient individuals on the planet embrace setbacks through the lens of opportunity and continue to adapt to their evolving conditions.

By embracing these tactics, we can sustain our grit and tenacity, even in the face of the most challenging circumstances.

Conclusion: Embracing the Journey Towards Resilience

Overcoming the fear of job rejection and developing perseverance is crucial for pursuing our dreams and aspirations. It’s easy to let rejection get the best of us, but we must remember that it doesn’t define our individual worth. We can reframe negative thoughts by focusing on our strengths and accomplishments. Seeking support and staying flexible in the face of adversity allows us to adapt and learn from challenging situations, ultimately leading to personal growth.

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I’ll leave you all with these top 10 perseverance quotes that have kept me pushing forward, even when the going gets tough. Let these words of wisdom inspire and motivate you never to give up, no matter what obstacles come your way.

1. “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” — Winston Churchill

2. “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” — Confucius

3. “Believe you can and you’re halfway there.” — Theodore Roosevelt

4. “Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did.” — Newt Gingrich

5. “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” — Mary Anne Radmacher

6. “It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.” — Albert Einstein

7. “Stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” — Winston Churchill

8. “Failure is only the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.” — Henry Ford

9. “When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.” — Franklin D. Roosevelt

10. “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” — Thomas Edison

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Haley Hougardy
ILLUMINATION

Writer @ mhanational.org + ex-writing instructor. Here to discuss writing/mental health in digestible ways.