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Please Don’t Try To Take My Picture. Here’s Why

What seems innocuous to you can be anything but

Picture of author bundled up in hat, big scarf and coat, looking off to the side.
My brother-in-law‘s stealth picture of me — Christmas Eve, in a horse-drawn carriage, on a cold but beautiful night in Niagara-on-the-Lake / Picture taken by the author’s family

Last Saturday I asked my best friend of over 30 years if he wanted to join me for dinner. We hadn’t seen each other for a few weeks so we were overdue for a chin wag.

His response was brief: “I don’t feel social today.”



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