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Signs That A Man Does Not Want A Relationship With You
And how to avoid it
You’ve been dating a guy for a while, but you’re not sure what’s going on with him. About 90% of men in this situation are actually in the “Friends Without Benefits” zone, but you might be part of the minority group, meaning you could be sleeping with him occasionally.
However, if you’re hearing the following things, it’s highly likely that he doesn’t want a relationship with you. It’s nice if he wants to sleep with you but doesn’t want a relationship, but if neither is the case, it’s best to leave that orbit and move on.
He has no intention of taking up more space in your life.
A man who wants a relationship with you will automatically start thinking about a future together. At first, this involves planning little things you can do together, or he may ask you to plan something to do together.
As the relationship evolves, a man will try to take up more of your time and attention. He’ll send you more messages, ask questions about your day, and try to find out what you’re doing and, of course, with whom.
These behaviors indicate that the question of “What are we?” is on the horizon. If you don’t see these behaviors, he is either not at that point or has no intention of being at that point.
