Some Hard Truth Of Life.

Subhasisduttaroy
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3 min readNov 18, 2020
  1. It is hard but true; no one has any true cares about you except your mom and dad. At any time of difficulties, you’re the only person who can take care of you. You are the only person who knows you better, so make a list of your priorities and put yourself at the top.

2. We are flowing with time. Best Friends Forever is a type of myth. We have best friends throughout the different timeframe of our life. Accept the truth. With the flow of time everyone (including you) will change. Many will leave you and you will leave many. People will come into your life, play their part and leave over time, so don’t get too sensitively attached.

3. The reason you can live your life till now is because of your family. They are silent defenders of you from difficulties of life. Give time to your parents as much as possible, they should be on your priority list for you and then the world.

4. Stop comparing. you with others. Everyone is unique in their way. You only know about their current location, not about the full way to reach their present position.

5. Don’t try to please everyone. “I don’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone” — Bill Cosby.

6. Motivation from outside will not last long. Self-motivation is a very important factor in life.

7. Anything that is causing you anxiety or pain at this moment will not cause you anxiety or pain forever. Things change over time and it will go away. Nothing is permanent in this wicked world- not even our troubles. — Charlie Chaplin

8. Do you want to get real happiness? Real happiness lies in selflessly helping others.

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9. You don’t have any control over time. It will follow continuously and never come back. Your past has done with time, you cannot control your past. So stop obsessing with your past. Gather and gain knowledge from your past and apply that on your present to best in the coming future.

10. Another important point of happiness is control over your expectations from others. If you can control your expectations then it leads you towards a happy and peaceful life.

11. Most of us give less value to which we get very easily. It is natural human behavior. Control your availability; it will increase your value.

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12. Life is full of opportunities. There is no dead end on the way of life. You can find a diversion whenever you want. You just have to possess the right views on those opportunities.

13. We always have respect for our life and work. One of the best ways to enhance respect for you from others is to show respect for him and his work.

14. No one, you also, knows all. No one can know everything. If you don’t know anything then clearly say’ I don’t know.’ No shame in this. Not knowing is not wrong, not wanting to know is wrong.

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Subhasisduttaroy
ILLUMINATION

Writer with 18 million views and 200k upvote on Quora , Locomotive Engineer in Indian Railways. Passionate about writing. Looking for new dimensions in Medium.