Spend Some Time With Yourself

In this busy life, we all are short of time. We all are running here and there in the chaos. No one has time, even for his own self.

Aman
ILLUMINATION
3 min readMay 19, 2023

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In our busy lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, constantly surrounded by people, distractions, and chaos. We rarely take a moment to stop and spend time with ourselves. But let me tell you that it’s crucial, it’s necessary, and it’s truly transformative and healthy for life.

When was the last time you sat alone with your own thoughts, undisturbed by external influences and external issues? When did you last delve into the depths of your emotions, your dreams, your fears, your stress? Taking the time to connect with yourself is an act of self-care and self-love that shouldn’t be underestimated.

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In solitude, you find solace. You discover the person beneath the layers, beyond the roles you play in society and in your professional life. Spending time alone allows you to reflect, introspect, and truly understand yourself. It’s a chance to evaluate your desires to understand your dreams, your values, your goals, and the path you’re walking on.

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It’s in these quiet moments that you uncover your passions, your strengths, your skills, and your weaknesses. You learn to embrace your flaws and appreciate your own uniqueness. In this solitude, you find the courage to face your fears, handle stress and chase your dreams. You realize that you are worthy of love and respect, both from others and from yourself.

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Spend some time with yourself, and you’ll develop a deeper sense of self-awareness, personal growth, and self-love. You’ll become attuned to your thoughts, feelings, and needs. You’ll cultivate a stronger intuition and stronger IQ guiding you towards decisions and actions that align with your authentic self.

Moreover, spending time alone allows for personal growth and self-healing. It grants you the opportunity to process your emotions, to grieve, to forgive, and to let go of things that disturbs your mental health. It’s a journey of self-discovery and self-recognition where you confront your past, make peace with it, and move forward with a lighter heart and zest.

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In this world full of noise, chaos, and constant distractions, finding solitude can be a challenge. But carve out moments in your day, whether it’s a few minutes of quiet meditation or an entire day spent in nature. Disconnect from technology, embrace the stillness, and let yourself be fully present in the moment and enjoy every single moment.

Spend some time with yourself, and you’ll find clarity amidst the chaos. You’ll unlock the power within you to live authentically, and you will come to know that you have immense power in you. Create a life that aligns with your truest desires. You’ll become more resilient, more confident, and more at peace with who you are.

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So, make yourself a priority. Carve out that time for solitude, self-growth and self-reflection. Embrace the beauty of your own company. In doing so, you’ll embark on a journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and self-love that will transform your life in ways you never ever imagined.

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Aman
ILLUMINATION

A doctor, an artist and a writer who likes to write intellectually about life experiences.