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Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Value You

Respect yourself and spend time with the right kind of people who like you for who you are

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Don’t waste your time chasing people who don’t value you

Don’t feel sorry for insecure people

People who do not value you might:

  • Ignore you
  • Dismiss you
  • Undermine or belittle you
  • Not return your messages timely, if at all
  • Cancel appointments regularly
  • Be late all the time
  • Talk about themselves and rarely ask you about your life
  • Show little interest in your passions or pursuits
  • Only do things they like
  • Have an agenda
  • Only find you valuable when there’s a benefit

If they see no value in you, why then waste your time and energy on them?

Don’t worry if people don’t like you

“The fear of man brings a snare, But whoever trusts in the LORD shall be safe.”

Proverbs 29:25

Keep your peace

Let go of people who don’t value you



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Orla K.

Writing about mental and emotional health, Christian spirituality, healing, and travel.