Surround Yourself With Successful People
“Surround Yourself With Those Conducive to You Being Your Highest Self.”
Surrounding makes a massive impact on your long term results. if you surround yourself with successful people who encourage you and guide you on how they overcome their failure and become successful.
So in the long run it’s a high chance that you become successful as they are. Because you surround yourself with people who are worked hard for achieving their goals in life and you know that if you want success in life you need to push yourself hard.
But if you surrounded yourself with people who always complaining in their life. they don’t know what they want to achieve in their life. they don’t know how to talk to the people. they don’t want to work hard and they just dream only to become successful.
No matter how much you are good if you surround yourself with these types of people. You become doubtful about your expertise. you’re complaining about your life and not work hard for your goals.
WHY?Because you surround yourself with those types of people who always complain about their life and do not work hard for their goals.
A 2014 study published in the Journal of Consumer Research found that if your friend is eating chocolate you’re more likely to become a partner in crime. that means is if you surround yourself with them you’re more likely to become the same as they are.
If you surround yourself with people who challenge themselves to become better in their life and work hard. you increase your chances to achieve your goals.
But let’s learn if you surround yourself with successful people. what you need to learn from them so you become the person as they are.
“Evil surrounding can destroy a Good soul.”
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Delayed Gratification
If you look at the person who doesn’t achieve anything in their life. This person believed in quick pleasure in their life such as going to parties etc. but the people who become successful in life they all have one thing in common.
They all believe in delayed gratification because they know if they work hard in the present they enjoy their life in the future. But the person who believes in quick pleasure.
In the future, they are very overwhelmed with work and become stressed instead of the person who works hard in the present, so they create a great future for themselves. Surround yourself with successful people will give you the benefit to believe in delayed gratification.
Effective Communication Skills
Successful people know how to talk to people they know how to listen to people they know how to handle difficult situations with their effective communication skills.
If you surround yourself with successful notice how good their body language is notice how they balance their verbal and nonverbal communication.
This thing is very life-changing if you surround yourself with successful people their effective communication skills is the first reason they get success in life.it becomes your as well if you hang out with them.
“Communication works for those who work at it.”
- John Powell
Life-Long Learner
Warren buffet spends his 80 percent day in reading. Bill Gates read 50 books a year. these successful people know that this is the reason behind their success, so they don’t forget to learn every day. learning is a crucial step for you which you need to develop.
Unfortunately we just think we just need to learn in school, colleges and universities But successful people don’t agree with this they consider themselves as life long learner.
Conclusion
- A 2014 study published in the Journal of Consumer Research found that if you surround yourself with successful people it’s more chances that you become the same as they are
- You need to learn delayed gratification from your successful people buddies. How they don’t look at quick pleasures for example parties etc and focus on their long-term goal because they know if they work hard in their present they get better result in the future.
- Effective communication is the most important that’s why they become successful. if they talk to someone you need to focus on their communication how they talk to people. how they listened to people if you learn that skill this will change your life.
- If you look at all the successful people such as warren buffet Bill Gates they all are lifelong learners. you can see this habit in your successful friends as well. they know if they don’t learn it they don’t grow it. You need to develop these habits in yourself over a while you become the same as they are.
“You become like the five people you spend the most time with. Choose carefully.”
Jim Rohn
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