The Four Pillars of Happiness

Kyriakos Dallas
ILLUMINATION
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4 min readAug 5, 2020

I want to talk today about the four pillars of happiness.

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I have taken this view from Tai Lopez, with whom I certainly do not agree with his views and opinions about money. Still, I see that we are very close in terms of the psychological level and views about happiness.

The four pillars are as follows.

  • Health
  • Wealth
  • Love
  • Happiness

We start with the first and most important.
If you are not healthy, you are not happy.

Health is the greatest wealth one can have. If you are not healthy, you can not work on the other three. The truth is that nowadays if you are not healthy, you do not care about anything else! You can not think, nor are you interested in simple things in life, let alone money, wealth, relationships, love, family, and in the end, happiness. You are almost as if you are doomed. Many people have overcome it but under certain conditions. But nothing is difficult.

Now, if you are healthy, you can work on the next three.

Next is wealth. What exactly is wealth? How do we acquire wealth?

Based on Google is:
1. an abundance of valuable possessions or money.
2. a plentiful supply of a particular desirable thing.
I want to focus more on the 2nd part, especially on the word
- desired object -

Man can desire enough, but what he desires can not exist if he does not have:
A. Health
B. Money

If you are healthy, you can make money.
Once you make money, you can want different things in your life.
The next step is to possess what you want.

You can not want a Lamborghini if ​​you do not have money.
Yes. You can crave it, but you can’t have it, which again makes you miserable.
For me, wealth is the money and objects and services that everyone wants, which he believes makes life more comfortable and can make you/him/her happy.

After securing these 2
Health
Wealth

The third is love, which I think is more challenging for everyone.

Μay seems to a young 20 years old difficult to make money.
But in a 50-year-old who has money, it seems difficult to find love at that age.
Imagine how easy it is for a 20-year-old to find love, but how difficult it is to make money.
And how easy it is for a 50-year-old who has money but can not find love.
(Usually, money helps but not always and if not always, definitely not for long)

The fourth and last is happiness.

If you have
Health
Wealth
Love

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Then you can have the ultimate happiness.
Because when you have your health, you can create wealth
when you have wealth, and you have certainly solved problems related to the financial complexity of life, and you did not care or stress with the money, the bills, and how they will be paid. How to pay the loan installments. How to find money to help your parents or how you will find money to buy the item you want, the house you want, the car you want, you spend your thoughts and time on it. You can not deal with love.

You can not start thinking about a third person in your life, and especially from the moment you make a relationship is two-way. his problems become yours. If you are very good at solving your own, you do not transmit your own into the relationship, which can make the relationship last longer.

Since you are now lucky because real luck is hidden in it, in my opinion, to find love despite the money, then you can slowly start to be happy.

These are the four pillars of happiness.

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