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The Best Way to Say No is NOT by saying NO
It’s a simple, easy trick!
Last year, a friendly colleague politely asked whether I could take up an urgent task so she could leave early. At the time, I was creating blog posts for two premium clients and editing articles for a new client.
There was a lot on my plate, and I didn’t have to think twice before saying no and politely giving the reason. She left, and I went about my day.
That was the last time she initiated a conversation with me. Later, my team member shared that the colleague thought I wasn’t a team player.
Fast forward to now, when I manage several clients, run a team of remote writers, handle personal commitments, and get smiled at after saying no.
I’ve learned the hard way that no one likes hearing no, and to maintain relationships it’s best to forget that word exists.
Now, I use a trick that enables me to reject a request yet make the other person happy. Here’s how.
The Key is to Offer Alternatives
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