The Person You Marry is the Most Important Decision You Will Ever Make in Your Life

Kingsley Asuamah
ILLUMINATION
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3 min readDec 19, 2023

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I was convinced that marriages are destined to be mundane, only to be proven wrong by one Hollywood Rom-Com that I watched. I saw this couple have so much fun and laughter in their marriage by playing funny pranks on each other daily. They looked like happy kids.

The truth is, that the person you choose to spend your life with will have the most profound impact on your success, happiness, and overall well-being.

The age-old saying, “Behind every successful man is a good woman,” might have more merit than you think. Recent research from Carnegie Mellon University highlights the significant role a supportive spouse plays in one’s life journey. It’s not just about having a partner; it’s about having the right one.

Here’s a glimpse into the findings of this enlightening study:

1. Accepting Challenges for Personal Growth

If you have a supportive spouse, you’re more likely to embrace challenges that contribute to your personal growth, happiness, and psychological well-being. Your life partner becomes a source of strength, encouraging you to step out of your comfort zone.

2. Impact on Critical Life Decisions

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Kingsley Asuamah
ILLUMINATION

Simple guy with a twisted mind. Tech Enthusiast. Software Quality Evangelist (QA). Humour Monger. I have many interests but I write mostly on Technology & Life.