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The Repentant Narcissist

When contrition is a means to an end

Rev. Sheri Heller, LCSW, RSW
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The major threats to our survival no longer stem from nature without, but from our own human nature within. It is our carelessness, our hostilities, our selfishness and pride and willful ignorance that endanger the world. ~ M. Scott Peck / People of the Lie

Repentance is a personal and transformative process of recognizing, feeling remorse for, and turning away from actions, thoughts, or behaviors that are considered wrong, harmful, or contrary to moral, ethical, or spiritual principles. It is not only an acknowledgment of wrongdoing, it is a sincere and humble attempt to take responsibility without excuses or rationalizations. The transgressor is committed to making amends to repair any damage caused by the wrongdoing. This can involve apologizing, compensating someone, or taking corrective actions.

In many religious or spiritual traditions, repentance involves openly admitting the wrongdoing, either privately to a higher power, to a trusted individual, or to the affected parties. In Christianity, repentance is a central concept tied to turning away from sin and turning toward God. It is often associated with confession and forgiveness through Christ. In Islam, repentance (Tawbah) is highly emphasized as a way to seek forgiveness from Allah and renew one’s faith. In Judaism, repentance…

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