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The Search That Never Ends: Why I Question Everything — Including Myself
I have always been curious. Not just for answers but for better questions.
It started early, though I didn’t recognise it at the time. I thought I was just living, adapting to whatever life threw at me. But looking back, I see it clearly now: every turning point, struggle, and success was shaped by the questions I was willing—or unwilling—to ask myself.
I didn’t set out to analyse my own journey. Like many of the people I help today, I was simply trying to make sense of why things felt the way they did, why I reacted as I did, and why some choices led to frustration while others opened new doors. I didn’t know that this search—this relentless questioning—would become the foundation of everything I do.
I’ll share with you some of the most important questions I’ve asked myself. Not because I’ve found all the answers but because the act of asking them has shaped the way I think, work, and live. And if you, like me, are endlessly curious about why we are the way we are, perhaps these questions will open something up in you, too.
The First Question: What Stories Are You Telling Yourself?
I didn’t always realise it, but I was telling myself my own life stories long before I understood the…
