Things I Will Never Say Again!

Divyanshu Lakwad
ILLUMINATION
Published in
5 min readJan 7, 2024

Master the power of your subconscious mind!

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Ever felt like your mind is having its own little chat without your permission? Well, it is, and what you tell yourself matters. This article is like a backstage pass to the inner workings of your mind. There’s a lot your mind manifests on its own when you keep repeating certain things. These are the five things I would never say to myself again. Simple tweaks to how you talk to yourself can shake up your whole reality. And, trust me, once you notice the difference, you won’t repeat the same mistake ever again.

I’ll Never Say “I Can’t Afford This”

How often have we slammed the door on our desires with the phrases, “I can’t afford it”? The next time your wallet feels a bit too light for that dream purchase, try this: instead of shutting the door, let’s open the window of possibilities. Ask yourself, “What are four ways I can bring in money for these things?”

For instance, imagine spotting those perfect shoes you’ve been eyeing, but they seem to dance just out of financial reach. Instead of the usual, “I can’t afford them,” tell your mind, “What are four ways I can bring in the money for these fabulous shoes?” Suddenly, your brain shifts gears. It starts concocting ideas — maybe you could freelance, sell some unused items, or take up a part-time gig. The beauty of this approach lies in its ability to turn problems into puzzles. Your brain, now challenged and engaged, begins to see solutions rather than obstacles.

Remember, it’s not about denying financial constraints but redirecting your focus toward creative problem-solving. This simple shift in perspective can transform your subconscious from a barrier to a bridge of possibilities. So, the next time you face a fiscal hiccup, ask, “What are four ways I can bring in the money for this thing?” Your mind will thank you with a burst of ingenious solutions.

I’ll Never Say “I Hope This Things Works Out”

How many times have we murmured, “I hope this works out”? Hope is a lovely sentiment, but when it comes to shaping our reality, it falls short, Instead, let’s infuse our language with expectation and excitement. Picture this: you’re launching a new project. Rather than timidly hoping it succeeds, try saying, “I can’t wait to see how wonderfully this unfolds.” Feel this shift? It’s subtle but powerful. You’re not choosing your fingers for luck; you’re anticipating success with confidence.

Consider another scenario — a job interview. Instead of hoping you impress the interviewer, declare, “I’m so excited about this opportunity!” This simple switch transforms wishful thinking into positive expectation, aligning your subconscious mind with confidence and success. Remember, hope whispers, but expectation shouts. Choose to shout!

I’ll Never Follow Up ‘I’m’ with any Negative or that I Don’t Want to Become

Ever notice how a simple “I’m” statement can set the tone for your entire day? Saying, “I’m anxious” or “I’m stressed” is like handing your subconscious mind a script for a not-so-great movie. Let’s rewrite that script.

Instead of claiming negative emotions as your identity, acknowledge them as passing sensations. So, instead of saying, “I’m anxious,” try, “I feel a little sensation of anxiety.” It’s like recognizing a cloud passing through the sky, knowing it’ll move on.

For instance, imagine you’re stuck in traffic. Instead of declaring, “I’m impatient,” say, “I feel a tad impatient right now.” By doing this, you’re not claiming impatience as your essence; you’re merely acknowledging a fleeting emotion. It’s a small tweak that can make a big difference in how you perceive yourself and navigate challenging situations. After all, you’re not defined by momentary feelings; you’re the ever-evolving narrator of your life story.

I’ll Never Call Anything Important

Ever noticed how the word ‘important’ can send your stress levels through the roof? That’s because, in the subconscious realm, it’s like shouting, ‘Emergency!’ Instead, let’s tweak our language for a healthier mindset.

Rather than declaring something as ‘important,’ try tagging it as ‘valuable’ or simply stating that it ‘needs attention.’ For instance, instead of saying, “This meeting is crucial”, opt for “This meeting is valuable for our team.” By making this switch, you signal to your subconscious that the task is significant without triggering a fight-or-flight response.

Imagine approaching your to-do list not with a sense of impending doom but with an acknowledgement of each task’s value. Suddenly, your subconscious is on board, ready to tackle what needs attention without the unnecessary stress. It’s a subtle shift with a powerful impact. Try it out and feel the difference!

I’ll Never Cut Anyone Else Down

Have you ever noticed how your mood shifts when someone praises you versus when they criticize you? Words hold immense power, not just in how we perceive others but also in shaping our own subconscious beliefs. Criticizing or cutting down others not only contradicts spiritual principles but has a surprising impact on your subconscious mind.

Your subconscious doesn’t distinguish between you and others; it takes everything personally. So, when you criticize someone else, your mind may interpret it as a reflection of yourself. Swap criticism for constructive communication. Instead of saying, “That’s a terrible idea,” try, “I see where you’re coming from, but have you considered this perspective?” This not only fosters healthier relationships but also reinforces a positive internal dialogue, transforming how you perceive yourself in the grand story of life.

In conclusion, I would like to say that, in the grand theatre of life, our subconscious mind plays a leading role. What we say to it shapes the narrative of our reality. By embracing these five mindful mantras, you can redefine your internal dialogue and, consequently, the world you experience. So, the next time you catch yourself uttering disempowering words, remember, that you’re not just talking to yourself; you’re crafting the story of your life. Choose your words wisely.

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Divyanshu Lakwad
ILLUMINATION

A law student turned writer, working on himself to improve everyday. I mostly write on self-growth, since I love to share everything that I learn.