Vulnerability Vault: 5 Prompts for Self-Discovery

A list of writing prompts that relate to self-discovery.

Jamie Watts
ILLUMINATION
3 min readJun 18, 2024

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Welcome to The Vulnerability Vault, where I believe that exploring our innermost thoughts and feelings is a powerful path to self-discovery and growth. Writing can be a profound tool to unlock your true self, understand your fears, and embrace your dreams. James W. Pennebaker* wrote

“Self-reports also suggest that writing about upsetting experiences, although painful in the days of writing, produces long-term improvements in mood and indicators of well-being compared with writing about control topics.”

To help you on your journaling journey, I’ve curated a list of five writing prompts designed to encourage self-discovery and vulnerability. Grab your journal, find a quiet space, and dive in.

1. Reflect on a Time of Change
Describe a moment in your life when everything changed. How did you feel in that moment, and how did it shape the person you are today? An example of this could be about moving to a new place or losing a job. This prompt helps you reflect on pivotal experiences and understand their impact on your growth and identity.

2. Inner Dialogue
Write a conversation between your current self and your younger self. What advice would you give, and what questions would you ask? This exercise can provide valuable insights into your past and highlight the wisdom you’ve gained over the years.

3. Exploring Values
Write about a core value that guides your decisions and actions. How did this value develop in you, and how does it influence your life? Understanding your values is essential for aligning your actions with your true self.

4. Hidden Talents and Dreams
Reflect on a hidden talent or dream you’ve never pursued. Why haven’t you followed this path, and what would your life look like if you did? Consider the role of fear in your decision. How has fear held you back from embracing your talents and dreams? This prompt encourages you to explore untapped potential and consider the possibilities of overcoming your fears to pursue your passions.

5. Forgiveness
Write a letter to someone who hurt you, whether or not you intend to send it. Focus on expressing your feelings and the impact the experience had on you. Forgiveness can be a powerful step toward healing, and writing can facilitate this process.

I hope these prompts inspire you to explore your thoughts and embrace vulnerability. Remember, the journey to self-discovery is a continuous process, and each step you take brings you closer to understanding and accepting your true self. Happy writing!

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Pennebaker, J. W. (1997). “Writing about emotional experiences as a therapeutic process.” Psychological Science, 8(3), 162–166.

Other Resources:

Baikie, K. A., & Wilhelm, K. (2005). “Emotional and physical health benefits of expressive writing.” Advances in Psychiatric Treatment, 11(5), 338–346.

I’m glad you’re here. I understand that some of these topics might bring up feelings of hesitation or fear. I invite you to let those feelings flow through you and guide you to express them through writing. Whether it’s pen on paper or fingers on the keyboard, let your thoughts come to life. If you’re interested, I have more journaling prompts on my page that you might find helpful: Journaling Prompts Part 1 and Journaling Prompts Part 2.

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