We Could Learn So Much About Sex From Gay People
A Lesson In Tactility, For A Start
At the age of 70, I’d be lying if I said I had never seen a lesbian porno. Especially since for a brief period I worked in the soft porn industry many years ago as a writer.
One of the things I could not but help notice was just how much more tender and gentle the women in question were. I guess that comes from being of the same sex. Also, a woman knows where and how she likes to be touched. Ergo, she knows what the other woman would like. And although I have never seen a gay porno and have no desire to, I guess it’s the same for men.
The fact of the matter is that we all know our own bodies and hotspots far more than anybody else ever could, except for a member of the same sex. I can see certain advantages in this in terms of not having to clumsily waste time trying to figure out how the other person you are having sex with likes to be touched in their erogenous zones.
From personal experience, I found the women in my life took a lot longer to become aroused and brought to a climax. Maybe that was just the individual women I was with. Or perhaps that was just my clumsiness and relative lack of sensitivity.
Yet another advantage is that women seem to have more staying power. That could be because unlike…
